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Compadre
A ritual kinship made at a child's baptism, binding parents and godparents for life
Compadre names the bond between a child's parents and godparents, made at baptism. It began in medieval Catholic Europe, spread through Spain and Portugal to Latin America and the Philippines, and is kept today as a lifelong tie of respect and mutual help between two families.
When is Compadre kept?
Compadre is kept at a child's baptism, and at later sponsoring ceremonies.
Compadre is the bond a baptism creates between a child's parents and the child's godparents. The word means co-father. It is a form of ritual kinship, common across Spain, Portugal, Latin America, the Philippines and other Catholic regions, and it turns sponsors into lifelong family. People keep it because it joins two households in mutual care, honour and obligation.
What it is
Compadre is a bond of ritual kinship. A baptism creates it: the child's mother and father become compadres with the godparents they have chosen. The word itself means co-father. Both men and women hold the tie, so a woman is a comadre, and the plural compadres takes in both. The two households are then bound for life and are expected to support one another and to share in bringing up the child. Spanish and Filipino call the whole system compadrazgo; Portuguese calls it compadrio.
Origins and history
The bond has roots in medieval European Catholicism and in the old practice of appointing godparents. A very early trace comes from Venice: Doge Pietro II Orseolo gave Otto III, Holy Roman Emperor, the title of compadre, and Otto then stood as godfather to the Doge's children. The Spanish novel Don Quixote, written between 1605 and 1615, refers to compadres more than once. From Iberia the custom travelled with Catholic settlers and missions, taking hold across Latin America and the Philippines, and it appears among Eastern European Catholics and Goan Christians in India.
Words and meanings
The main pair of words is compadre and comadre, co-father and co-mother. Spanish and Filipino use compadrazgo for the institution, Portuguese uses compadrio. England had its own term as well, godsib, meaning a sibling in God, in use during the Middle Ages. The English word gossip is traced back to it, probably through the friendly chatter such close companions shared. Spanish comadrear, to gossip, and French commérage come from the same family of terms. In Portugal the word compadre also covers the parents of both people in a couple.
Today and change
In much of Latin America the bond keeps its full weight, and being asked as padrino or compadre is an honour that lasts a lifetime. Elsewhere the word has loosened. In Brazil it can describe an ordinary friendship, and in Portugal's Alentejo it is a casual form of address among older men. In southern Spain it may mean no more than a godfather or a close friend, with no ceremony behind it. In Argentina and Paraguay the diminutive compadrito labels a braggart or a bully.
How Compadre is kept
At a baptism, a family chooses a godfather and a godmother for the child. Once the rite is performed, those sponsors and the child's parents are compadres to one another. From that point they share in the child's upbringing. Catholic teaching gives the sponsors a duty to help the child live by the faith and to support a good life through education, marriage and personal growth. The same tie can be made at other ceremonies: first communion, confirmation, a wedding, a quinceañera, or a child's first haircut.
When and where
The bond begins at a child's baptism, whenever the family arranges it. Other compadre ties come later, at first communion, confirmation, marriage, a quinceañera, or in Peru a first haircut when the child is about three years old.
Spain and Portugal are its oldest homes, and it is strong across Latin America and among Filipino Christians. Smaller followings exist in Eastern Europe, where the sources name Russia and Ukraine, and in Goan Christian Brahmin families in India. Its everyday use is strongest in traditional Latin American and Hispanic households.
What Compadre means
To families who keep it, compadre is more than a title. It ranks among the closest family loves, just below one's own household, and it carries duties of care, protection and honour. In traditional Latin American and Hispanic families, being invited as a padrino or compadre is a lifelong distinction. The tie can be so serious that friends who have always used the informal tú with each other may switch to the formal usted once they become compadres.
Questions people ask about Compadre
When is Compadre kept?
Compadre is kept at a child's baptism, and at later sponsoring ceremonies.
What is a compadre?
A compadre is a co-parent by ritual rather than by blood. When a child is baptised, the child's mother and father and the chosen godparents become compadres to one another. The tie is lifelong and carries duties of care and respect between the two families.
Where is this custom kept?
It is kept in Spain and Portugal, across Latin America, and among Filipino Christians. The sources also note it in Eastern Europe, naming Russia and Ukraine, and in Goan Christian Brahmin families in India.
Is compadre always a religious tie?
Not any more. The original bond comes from Catholic baptism and still carries that meaning for many families. But in Brazil it can mean an ordinary friendship, and in southern Spain it may simply mean a godfather or a close friend, with no ritual attached.
What is the female form?
A woman in this bond is a comadre. The plural compadres covers both men and women, and the Spanish and Filipino word compadrazgo, or Portuguese compadrio, names the whole institution of co-parenthood.
See also
Good FridayA solemn Christian holy day commemorating the crucifixion and death of Jesus Christ.
Holy WeekThe solemn seven days leading to Easter, recalling the final week and Passion of Jesus
Feast of Corpus ChristiA Christian feast celebrating the presence of Christ in the bread and wine of the Eucharist
CandlemasA Christian feast of candle blessings marking the end of the Christmas seasonGood reading and sources
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