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Kowtow
In its own language: 叩頭
A traditional Chinese prostration of deep respect by kneeling and bowing to the ground

Kowtow is a traditional Chinese act of deep reverence where a person kneels and touches their forehead to the floor. Used across history for imperial ceremonies, religious rites and family milestones, it remains a symbol of profound humility and respect.
When is Kowtow kept?
Kowtow is kept during ancestral rites, weddings, funerals, religious worship, and traditional apprenticeship inductions.
The kowtow is a traditional gesture of deep reverence in Chinese culture, performed by kneeling down and touching one's head to the ground. Rooted in ancient philosophical thought, the practice places the physical body in a position of complete humility to cultivate genuine respect in the mind. Historically performed before rulers and elders, it continues today during ancestral rites, temple worship, life milestones and formal master-student apprenticeships.
Imperial court etiquette
In imperial China, the kowtow formed the core of court protocol. Different degrees of prostration marked the importance of an occasion. The grandest ritual, known as the three kneelings and nine knockings, required an attendant to kneel three separate times and bow three times during each kneeling. Subjects performed this full tribute before the emperor at major events such as coronations. Ordinary citizens also knelt and bowed before local magistrates who represented imperial authority, while degree holders were permitted to remain seated. Foreign emissaries and tributary kings were expected to perform these bows to signify diplomatic submission.
Family life and milestones
Confucian philosophy placed great weight on filial piety, teaching that children owe profound gratitude to their parents and ancestors. In traditional households, younger generations performed the kowtow during special family occasions. At weddings, brides and grooms bowed to the ground before both sets of parents to honour their upbringing. Although modern daily etiquette has largely replaced deep prostrations with standing bows, the kowtow still appears at grave sites, ancestor altars and during funerals. It is also used to offer deep apologies, show intense gratitude, or complete formal student inductions in martial arts and performance traditions.
Spiritual and temple practice
In Buddhist devotion, bowing to the floor is known as casting down the five limbs, referring to the two hands, two legs and forehead making contact with the earth. Devotees often bow in sets of three before sacred statues or tombs. During solemn rites, worshippers may complete the full sequence of three kneelings and nine head touches. Devout pilgrims sometimes undertake long journeys where they perform a kowtow after every three steps, honouring the Triple Gem of the Buddha, the Dharma teachings, and the monastic Sangha community.
How Kowtow is kept
A person begins from a standing position, drops down onto both knees, and leans forward until their forehead meets the floor. In a single kowtow, the forehead touches the surface once before the person rises. In the grand kowtow, the practitioner completes three cycles: kneeling from a standing posture, bowing their head to the ground three times while remaining on their knees, and then standing back up between sets to complete nine prostrations in total.
When and where
The gesture is not bound to a single date on the calendar. It takes place during religious devotions, temple visits, family life events such as weddings and funerals, and seasonal offerings at ancestral tombs.
Developed in China and shared across Sinospheric cultures, the custom is found in Buddhist temples, traditional martial arts academies, ancestral cemeteries, and family homes during major rites of passage.
What Kowtow means
According to Confucian thought, the state of the body directly shapes the mind. By bringing the entire body down to earth, a person invites true sincerity, willingness, and modesty into their heart. Knocking the forehead to the ground represents the highest possible acknowledgment of debt, reverence, and devotion toward ancestors, parents, masters, or spiritual teachers.




Questions people ask about Kowtow
When is Kowtow kept?
Kowtow is kept during ancestral rites, weddings, funerals, religious worship, and traditional apprenticeship inductions.
What is a kowtow?
A kowtow is a traditional prostration where a person kneels down and lowers their head until it touches the ground. It is the highest physical sign of respect in Chinese culture.
What is the grand kowtow?
The grand kowtow is an elaborate ritual of three kneelings and nine head touches. The person kneels down three times, bowing their head to the floor three times during each kneel.
Is the kowtow still used today?
While standing bows have mostly replaced it in daily life, kowtows still occur at ancestral graves, funerals, some traditional weddings, temple worship, and martial arts master-disciple initiations.
See also
Good reading and sources
- Encyclopaedia BritannicaArticle
- Library of Congress CatalogLibrary of Congress, Article
- Library of Congress CatalogLibrary of Congress, Article
- Kowtow on WikipediaEncyclopedia
- More photos on Wikimedia CommonsPhotos and video
- Wikidata recordOpen data
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