Sworn virgin: rite of passage from Albania

Sworn virgin: ED011_RAI 400.13169 Albania. Rapsha. A 47-year-old Sworn Virgin from Rapsha in Hoti territory (Photo: Edith Durham, 16 May 1908). — Photo: Edith Durham, Public domain, via Wikimedia Commons

A sworn virgin, or burrnesha, is a person raised as a girl in the patriarchal Balkans who vows lifelong chastity and lives socially as a man. The role is strongest in the mountains of northern Albania, Kosovo and Montenegro, and it rests on the customary Kanun code rather than on any faith.

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In the highlands of northern Albania, Kosovo and Montenegro, some families have raised a daughter to live as a man. She takes a vow of chastity before the elders of her village and is afterwards treated as male: she may head a household, carry a gun, do men's work and sit with men. The role is called burrnesha, a sworn virgin, and families turn to it to keep a name and a household from disappearing.

The sworn role

The burrnesha is a recognised social position in the tribal highlands. Someone raised as a girl swears to stay chaste for life and is afterwards addressed and treated as a man. In everyday terms that can mean wearing men's clothes, answering to a man's name, smoking, drinking, carrying a weapon and joining men in talk and music. Such a person may run a household, often with a mother or a sister, and may do work that was otherwise closed to women. Neighbours relate to the vow-taker as male, though the earlier life is not always put aside.

Origins and the Kanun

The practice has been recorded in the region since the 1400s. It grew out of the Kanun of Lekë Dukagjini, a body of rules that governed daily life in northern Albania and Kosovo through Ottoman times. The code belongs to no church or mosque: families of Orthodox, Catholic and Muslim background all lived by it. It made households patrilineal, so land and wealth passed down the male line, and patrilocal, so a wife moved into her husband's house. Women under the code could not buy land, hold many jobs or vote in local elections. Endless blood feuds between clans often left a household with no surviving son, and someone had to fill that place.

Taking the oath

A vow can be made at any age. Sometimes parents promise a baby or small child, and the phrase vajzë e betuar, the pledged girl, suits that case. More often the person decides herself and speaks before twelve elders of her village or tribe. She promises to keep celibacy and to hold the role for the rest of her life. From then on she is treated as a man, usually with masculine pronouns. In Slavic languages that carry three genders, people avoid the third one when speaking of her. Going back on the vow was once a capital matter, though it is doubtful that such a penalty is carried out now.

Why people take it

Accounts collected by visitors and researchers give several motives. A person might want to stay beside a father or a sister, or to escape a marriage being arranged for her. Taking the vow was also the one route by which a family could refuse an arranged match without insulting the groom's people and risking a feud. It let a woman inherit when there was no male heir, and blood feuds were the reason there often was none. The anthropologist Jeffrey Dickemann thought the inheritance explanation was pressed too hard, since a person who bears no children leaves no heir. Mothers may have urged the choice, so as not to lose a companion.

Today and change

Dalmatia and Bosnia no longer keep the practice. Northern Albania does, and North Macedonia to a smaller extent. Albania's communist government discouraged the role and gave women more legal rights, particularly in the centre and south, while northern families stayed patriarchal. The National Geographic programme Taboo estimated in 2002 that fewer than 102 were left. In 2022, with no exact count available, about twelve were thought to remain in northern Albania and Kosovo, many of them over fifty. Researchers once assumed the custom had nearly vanished; later work suggests that feuding after the old regime fell might revive it.

How Sworn virgin is kept

Usually a person decides for herself, though sometimes parents pledge a girl while she is still small. She declares before twelve elders of the village or tribe that she will keep celibacy and live as a man, and the oath is meant to be final. From then on she wears men's clothing, may use a man's name, carries a gun if she wishes, smokes, drinks, takes men's work, heads a household and sits with men. Others speak of her as male. Her community would turn her away if she went back on the promise, though a vow can sometimes be released once the reasons behind it have gone.

When and where

There is no season or fixed day. A vow is taken at whatever point a person or a family decides, from infancy to later life, and it is meant to hold for the rest of that person's life.

The practice belongs to the mountainous north of Albania, and is kept also in Kosovo and, less often, in Montenegro. It has been recorded in other parts of the western Balkans as well: Serbia, Dalmatia in Croatia, North Macedonia and Bosnia, though in those places it has largely ended.

What Sworn virgin means

To the families who keep it, the vow is a way of holding a household together: it keeps a name, a farm and a place in the tribe from dying out. It also buys a kind of freedom, since a person who lives as a man can move, speak and work where a woman could not. Villagers speak of the role with respect. Those who take it often describe it as the right decision for them, not a loss.

Questions people ask about Sworn virgin

What is a sworn virgin?

A person raised as a girl in the patriarchal Balkans who vows chastity and is then treated socially as a man. The Albanian word is burrnesha. The role brings the freedoms, the work and the standing that men hold, and it is meant to last the rest of that person's life.

Where is the practice found?

Chiefly in the mountains of northern Albania, and in Kosovo and Montenegro. It has also been recorded in Serbia, Dalmatia in Croatia, North Macedonia and Bosnia, but in those areas it has largely stopped. Only northern Albania and, to a smaller degree, North Macedonia still keep it.

How does someone become one?

By swearing an oath of celibacy before twelve elders drawn from the village or tribe and taking up the male role from then on. In some cases parents promise a girl while she is a baby. The vow is not easily undone, since a community would reject someone who broke it.

Why would a person choose this?

Reasons vary. Some wanted to stay with a father or a sister, some to avoid a forced marriage, and families without a son needed someone who could inherit and provide. Others simply gained far more freedom as a man than was open to them as a woman.

How many sworn virgins remain?

A 2002 television estimate put the number at fewer than 102. By 2022 no exact count existed, but about twelve were thought to be living in northern Albania and Kosovo, and many of those were over fifty years old.

Good reading and sources

Where this page comes from

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