Mano

What it is

Mano is the Filipino way of greeting an older person and asking for a blessing. The younger person says "Mano po" or "Bless po" first, which asks permission to begin. The elder holds out a hand, usually the right one. The younger person bends forward and brings the forehead down to that hand. The elder answers with a blessing, often "God bless you", and may trace a small sign of the cross over the younger person.

Words and honorifics

The name is not Filipino. Mano is Spanish for hand. Po is a Filipino word placed in a sentence to show respect, mostly when speaking to someone older, so the phrase mano po asks, politely, for the hand. Opo is the respectful form of yes, and an apology becomes paumanhin po. In Philippine English people often simply say "bless". Po once carried a stronger sense of rank than it does now, but it still marks formality, which is why it travels with the gesture. Filipinos also call the gesture pagmamano.

Who receives it

The rule of thumb is one generation. Parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles are greeted this way, while older brothers, sisters and cousins are not. Godparents receive it, as do the older relatives of a friend or partner, and the friends of one's own older relatives. Priests and ministers receive it too, often after Mass. Filipino families also use kinship words for older people outside the family, calling them aunt, uncle, grandmother or grandfather, so neighbours and even strangers of a certain age may be greeted with the mano. The gesture is one sign of how much weight family holds in Filipino life, where grandparents often live with their children and grandchildren.

Origins and history

Spanish gives the word, but the gesture is older than Spanish rule, and it is shared across island Southeast Asia. Pedro Chirino, a Spanish priest, described islanders who bowed low and raised their hands to the face when they met a superior. A later chronicle from 1738 records bows, lifted hands and a squatting posture before someone of higher rank. In Indonesia the same habit is called salim, a name that comes from Arabic, and in Malaysia it is salam. Brunei is named among the places where it is followed. This spread suggests the custom belongs to pre-colonial times.

Asking pardon

There is a fuller version of the gesture for serious matters. The younger person takes both of the elder's hands and raises them to the forehead, asking forgiveness for an offence. This may be done on the knees and in tears. When the mano is made this way, the elder's reply is more likely to ask for mercy from God than to give a simple blessing. The elaborate form is considered the highest degree of pagmamano, kept for moments when a plain greeting would not be enough.

How Mano is kept

A younger person sees an elder, says "Mano po", and reaches for the hand the elder offers, usually the right one. Bending forward, the younger person rests the forehead on that hand while the elder blesses them, often with "God bless you". The elder may draw a small cross in the air. At the end of Mass, people greet the priest the same way. For a serious apology, the person takes the elder's hands in both of theirs, lifts them to the forehead, and may kneel. This is treated as the fullest form of the gesture.

When and where

There is no fixed day. The gesture belongs to the moment of meeting. It is done when an elder is seen for the first time that day, when someone enters a house or joins a gathering, and after Mass. Filipinos who meet an older relative after a long absence often begin with it.

It is kept throughout the Philippines and among Filipino families abroad. Related greetings are found in Indonesia, Malaysia and Brunei, where the gesture is called salim or salam and is offered to older relatives and to religious scholars.

What Mano means

Offering a hand to an elder is a way of placing oneself lower and accepting that person's blessing and wisdom. To skip it, especially on entering an elder's home or meeting them at a gathering, is thought rude. The practice rests on how much Filipino culture values family and age, and it says that older people deserve a public sign of honour.

Questions people ask about Mano

See also

HandshakeA brief clasp of hands to greet, part or seal a deal, with local rules on how it is doneKopitiamA neighbourhood coffee shop where Southeast Asians share meals, drinks and newsKenduriA communal prayer meal and gathering shared across Indonesia, Malaysia and BruneiLion danceA dynamic ritual dance featuring costumed lions, drums and martial acrobatics

Good reading and sources

• Mano (gesture) on WikipediaEncyclopedia
• More photos on Wikimedia CommonsPhotos and video
• Wikidata recordOpen data

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