Bride-show

What it was

A bride-show was a court custom for finding a wife. A ruler had young women brought together so that he could look them over and pick one. The practice is best documented among Byzantine emperors, who used it from at least the 8th century, and among Russian tsars of the 16th and 17th centuries. Imperial China had something similar, used at least from the Song dynasty and still in force under the Qing. The women came from leading families of the country, and their looks were part of what the ruler judged.

Byzantine courts

The earliest use is not certain. Irene of Athens is thought to have been picked for Leo IV the Khazar in this way, though the record does not confirm it. The first case written down with confidence comes from 788, when Maria of Amnia became the wife of the emperor Constantine. Through the 8th and 9th centuries the method was used again and again. One well-known example is Theodora, chosen by Theophilos, while Kassia was passed over. From the 10th century on, no empress can be confirmed as chosen this way, and by the 13th century the custom had ended.

In Muscovite Russia

Russia took the practice from Byzantium. There it became the usual way for a tsar to find a wife among the boyar nobility. This mattered in a society where the terem, the separate women's quarters, kept aristocratic women apart from men. Ivan IV took all three of his wives this way. Vasily III's marriage to Solomoniya Saburova, made this way in 1505, is the earliest case the sources treat as certain. Vasily's mother, Sophia Paleologue, who came from Byzantium, is credited with bringing the custom in. The last such gathering was held for Ivan V, who chose Praskovia Saltykova in 1684. The Westernizing reforms of Peter the Great ended it.

In imperial China

China had a similar practice, used at least from the Song dynasty, which ran from 960 to 1279. The difference was scale: the emperor could take not only an empress but consorts and concubines of lower rank as well. Under the Qing dynasty, from 1644 to 1912, daughters of elite families were called to the palace before they married and were inspected there. The emperor picked whichever of them he wanted as empress, secondary consort or concubine. The others were then released and free to marry.

Doubts and echoes

Historians do not agree on how much of the Byzantine record to trust. One paper asks whether the bride-shows at that court were history or fiction, and another examines the sources behind the bride-show of Theophilos. The Greek scholar Photeine Bourboulis wrote about the custom next to the Cinderella fairy story. The article's list of related subjects also names the Book of Esther and the modern beauty pageant, without saying how they connect.

How Bride-show is kept

The custom is no longer practised. When it was, a ruler's court gathered young women of good family, often many at once, so that he could look them over and choose. The choice was his alone. In Russia the woman he picked became his wife. In China the emperor might take several, as empress, secondary consort or concubine, and send the rest home to marry. In Byzantium the aim was to find an empress. The practice died out in Byzantium by the 13th century and in Russia after Peter the Great's reforms.

When and where

A bride-show happened when a ruler needed a wife, so there was no fixed date. In Byzantium the practice is recorded from the 8th century into the 9th, and gone by the 13th. In Russia it ran through the 16th and 17th centuries, and the last one was held in 1684.

The custom belonged to imperial courts: first in Byzantium, then in Muscovite Russia, and separately in imperial China. Among the three, Russia is where it took its firmest hold, lasting through the 16th and 17th centuries. The sources name no particular city as its home.

What Bride-show means

For the courts that used it, the bride-show tied marriage to rank and to the ruler's judgement. A tsar or emperor examined the daughters of leading families, and the one he picked rose to empress or consort. The seclusion of aristocratic women under the terem made a gathering like this one of the few ways such a marriage could be arranged. Beauty counted, and so did family standing.

Questions people ask about Bride-show

See also

Chinese operaA sung, danced and acrobatic theatre from China, in over a hundred regional stylesKizombaA close, slow couple dance from Angola, named after a Kimbundu word for partyChinese knottingA folk craft of cord tied into lucky shapes, made in China and given as charmsManchu-Han Imperial FeastA grand multi-day banquet uniting Manchu and Han culinary traditions in China

Good reading and sources

• Bride-show on WikipediaEncyclopedia
• More photos on Wikimedia CommonsPhotos and video
• Wikidata recordOpen data

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