Home and family life
The house, the hearth, the family and the neighbourhood.
Home and family life traditions are the customs of the house, the hearth, the kitchen and the neighbourhood: removing shoes, the family meal, the household shrine, the front-door step swept each morning, the Sunday visit to the grandparents. They are often the first traditions a child learns, and the last to be lost. EveryParampara collects them from every region and notes both the old forms and the way they are changing in small flats, busy cities and families spread across the world.
The house as a sacred place
Many cultures treat the house as a living thing to be blessed, protected and kept in order. A threshold is swept, a lamp is lit at dusk, a charm hangs at the door and a new home is entered with a rite. The hearth, the stove or the kitchen is often the centre, with its own rules about who may cook and what may be burned. Even a small flat can keep a corner for these customs.
Family and neighbours
Family traditions include who eats first, how elders are greeted, how children are taught, and who looks after whom. Neighbourhoods have their own customs of sharing, visiting and helping at times of need. Across the world, the weekly family meal, the yearly reunion and the habit of staying in touch by phone or message hold households together, and EveryParampara records these small rhythms, which are rarely written down.
Written by the EveryParampara desk with AI assistance. Background on Home and family life (kind of tradition). Customs differ from place to place and family to family. If this is your tradition and we have it wrong, tell us.
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🇹🇱 Timor-LesteUma Lulik
Sacred ancestral clan houses and ritual shrines in East TimorSpiritual
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🇩🇪 Nuremberg, Germany and 5 moreChristkind
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Photo credits on this page
The small pictures above come from Wikimedia Commons under free licences. Some are cropped to fit.
- Uma Lulik: Isabel Nolasco, CC BY-SA 4.0, source
- Trick-or-treating: Toyah Anette B, Public domain, source
- Christmas tree: Lechhansl, CC BY-SA 3.0, source
- Whakapapa: Jimmy Pitt, CC BY-SA 3.0, source
- Slava: Petar Milošević, CC BY-SA 4.0, source
- Mother's Day: Dave Parker, CC BY 2.0, source
- Advent wreath: Burkhard Mücke, CC BY 4.0, source
- Kwanzaa: Apavlo at English Wikipedia, Public domain, source
- Ikebana: Joe Mabel, CC BY-SA 3.0, source
- Christkind: Roland Berger, CC BY-SA 3.0, source
- Dashain: Unknown author, CC0, source
- Children's Day: Comissão de Jovens, CC BY-SA 2.0, source
- Didukh: Bo&Ko, CC BY-SA 2.0, source
- Bhai Dooj: SandeshLamsalNepal, CC BY-SA 4.0, source
- Tihar: Sreekumar K. S., CC BY 2.0, source
- Christmas cracker: en:User:Cgros841, Public domain, source
- Dreamcatcher: Jorge Barrios, Public domain, source
- Kadomatsu: Nesnad, CC BY 4.0, source
- Mudik: Arie Basuki, CC BY-SA 4.0, source
- Hygge: Johan Wessman / News Oresund, CC BY 2.0, source
- Barn raising: Alexander W. Galbraith, Public domain, source
- Tush kyiz: Photo User:Zenwort, CC BY-SA 4.0, source
- Postpartum confinement: Unknown, Public domain, source
- Yule log: Pehr Arvid Säve (1811—1887), Public domain, source
- Wharenui: Unknown author, Public domain, source
- Haft-sin: HengamehRM, CC BY-SA 3.0, source
- Hoʻoponopono: Makana Chai, Public domain, source
- Navajo weaving: Don Graham, CC BY-SA 2.0, source
- Siesta: Vincent van Gogh, Public domain, source
- Berber carpet: Quadell, CC BY-SA 3.0, source
- Finnish sauna: Eric Koch for Anefo, CC0, source
- Armenian carpet: VincentKeers, Public domain, source
- Feng shui: Unknown author, Public domain, source
- Curanto: Lin linao, CC BY-SA 3.0, source
- Majlis: Abū Zayd ibn Muḥammad ibn Abī Zayd, CC0, source
- Islamic marriage: عامر شاہین, CC BY-SA 3.0, source
- Grihapravesh: Aruna at ml.wikipedia, CC BY-SA 3.0, source
- Housewarming party: State Library of Queensland, Australia, No restrictions, source
- Nakshi kantha: A junaid alam khan ( talk ), Public domain, source
- Fest noz: Man vyi, Public domain, source
- Mudhif: Hassan Janali, U.S. Army Corps of Engineers, Public domain, source
- Spirit house: Chainwit., CC BY-SA 4.0, source
- Samovar: Unknown author, CC BY-SA 3.0, source
- Mezuzah: Adrian Grycuk, CC BY-SA 3.0 pl, source
- Novena: Catedrales e Iglesias/Cathedrals and Churches, CC BY 2.0, source